Saturday, May 30, 2009
Monday, May 25, 2009
Shortcuts, the easy way out and playing dumb
It has occurred to me that a large portion of us take the 'easy way' out in life (including myself).
On a regular basis, we experience reductions in effort whilst performing tedious tasks. Nowadays, there are many simplified techniques to get your work done in half the time using half the effort. Cutting corners only helps you reach a certain stage in life, before you realize that you don't know what to do anymore. As life progresses and you're faced with an abstruse situation, there is no way to comprehend how to overcome it - it becomes customary to search for the easy and effortless way out.
It becomes habitual to turn to the uncomplicated ways of dealing with things and it eventually grows on you so much that you don't notice it. Fact is that it's easier to avoid than to accept and embrace change with open arms.
When a person prefers not to admit and turn a blind eye they create a protective barrier around themselves so that they can't feel pain or discomfort. However, it's important to be hurt so that we can learn, understand and accept in order to move forward.
Life is a journey, enjoy the long ride without shortcuts.
On a regular basis, we experience reductions in effort whilst performing tedious tasks. Nowadays, there are many simplified techniques to get your work done in half the time using half the effort. Cutting corners only helps you reach a certain stage in life, before you realize that you don't know what to do anymore. As life progresses and you're faced with an abstruse situation, there is no way to comprehend how to overcome it - it becomes customary to search for the easy and effortless way out.
It becomes habitual to turn to the uncomplicated ways of dealing with things and it eventually grows on you so much that you don't notice it. Fact is that it's easier to avoid than to accept and embrace change with open arms.
When a person prefers not to admit and turn a blind eye they create a protective barrier around themselves so that they can't feel pain or discomfort. However, it's important to be hurt so that we can learn, understand and accept in order to move forward.
Life is a journey, enjoy the long ride without shortcuts.
Saturday, May 23, 2009
Why do people need a reason to believe?
It is the year 2009.
The outlook and mindset of people in society are starting to change drastically across the world. Through the widespread channel of knowledge and mass media, our thoughts, beliefs, perspective, faith and overall self concept are shaped.
Fifty years ago, blind faith existed. Today, people want to validate what they already know. They seek logical reasoning for everything as to why things happen a certain way. More and more people are questioning the existence of God relating it with scientific explanations. It is hard to 'believe' in God, because we worship idols and paintings. Has anyone ever seen him? Is there proof? It's hard for society to accept that there is a higher force that is accountable for taking care of the universe. Just because we can't see it, doesn't mean it is not there.
There are only a few individuals that are willing to stand by what they believe in because they're not afraid of being wrong or humiliated. Others just suppress themselves, they don't want to take a risk in being ostracized.
People need a reason to believe because they don't have confidence...they lack faith in themselves and turn to explanations to clear out all their doubts. Majority of society turns to evidence so that they can believe.
We need to look deep within ourselves and then we can find truth.
The outlook and mindset of people in society are starting to change drastically across the world. Through the widespread channel of knowledge and mass media, our thoughts, beliefs, perspective, faith and overall self concept are shaped.
Fifty years ago, blind faith existed. Today, people want to validate what they already know. They seek logical reasoning for everything as to why things happen a certain way. More and more people are questioning the existence of God relating it with scientific explanations. It is hard to 'believe' in God, because we worship idols and paintings. Has anyone ever seen him? Is there proof? It's hard for society to accept that there is a higher force that is accountable for taking care of the universe. Just because we can't see it, doesn't mean it is not there.
There are only a few individuals that are willing to stand by what they believe in because they're not afraid of being wrong or humiliated. Others just suppress themselves, they don't want to take a risk in being ostracized.
People need a reason to believe because they don't have confidence...they lack faith in themselves and turn to explanations to clear out all their doubts. Majority of society turns to evidence so that they can believe.
We need to look deep within ourselves and then we can find truth.
Saturday, May 16, 2009
Seeing things differently
After time passes by, you realize that there are many kinds of people that are in your life, and who actually pulls through for you during the rough times. I thought that I knew a few individuals that would always help me out, but to my surprise it was the complete opposite.
Words. They can be filled with emptiness and false modesty. Now that I've had quite some time to analyze the situation and decide how I want things to unfold, I've had to change my attitude and behaviour towards people. It seems as if that I'm the one who puts more effort into the relationship than others, and it really gets to you sometimes. I hate always being the nice one, I'd like someone to do something selfless for me for once.
Bhalu. You won't ever be able to comprehend how much you've helped me and see things differently. "I smiled even when the shit stank." I can always count on you for a shoulder to cry on, or a few good laughs. We make a notorious pair. What I found out, is that we sort of, help each other on the way. It's a magnetic -type reaction, and when I need someone, you're there in a heartbeat. That's what I love about you - you know how to handle me. Now, I've gained a great photography buddy, and I'm pretty sure that we have many cool places to uncover together. Thanks for being a great friend.
Pics of our day:
Camera: Canon EOS 450D
Exposure: 1/1000
Aperture: f/5.6
Focal Length: 55mm
ISO: 800
Camera: Canon EOS 450D
Exposure: 1/60
Aperture: f/5.6
Focal Length: 55mm
ISO: 250
Camera: Canon EOS 450D
Exposure: 1/320
Aperture: f/5.6
Focal Length: 55mm
ISO: 200
Camera: Canon EOS 450D
Exposure: 1/10
Aperture: f/18
Focal Length: 110mm
ISO: 800
Camera: Canon EOS 450D
Exposure: 1/250
Aperture: f/5.6
Focal Length: 110mm
ISO: 800
Words. They can be filled with emptiness and false modesty. Now that I've had quite some time to analyze the situation and decide how I want things to unfold, I've had to change my attitude and behaviour towards people. It seems as if that I'm the one who puts more effort into the relationship than others, and it really gets to you sometimes. I hate always being the nice one, I'd like someone to do something selfless for me for once.
Bhalu. You won't ever be able to comprehend how much you've helped me and see things differently. "I smiled even when the shit stank." I can always count on you for a shoulder to cry on, or a few good laughs. We make a notorious pair. What I found out, is that we sort of, help each other on the way. It's a magnetic -type reaction, and when I need someone, you're there in a heartbeat. That's what I love about you - you know how to handle me. Now, I've gained a great photography buddy, and I'm pretty sure that we have many cool places to uncover together. Thanks for being a great friend.
Pics of our day:
Camera: Canon EOS 450D
Exposure: 1/1000
Aperture: f/5.6
Focal Length: 55mm
ISO: 800
Camera: Canon EOS 450D
Exposure: 1/60
Aperture: f/5.6
Focal Length: 55mm
ISO: 250
Camera: Canon EOS 450D
Exposure: 1/320
Aperture: f/5.6
Focal Length: 55mm
ISO: 200
Camera: Canon EOS 450D
Exposure: 1/10
Aperture: f/18
Focal Length: 110mm
ISO: 800
Camera: Canon EOS 450D
Exposure: 1/250
Aperture: f/5.6
Focal Length: 110mm
ISO: 800
Sunday, May 10, 2009
Happy Mothers' Day
What does it mean to be a mother?I think children these days are taking their parent(s) for granted in many ways. They don't know the value of what it means to have parents who sacrificed their life for their offspring.
In my perspective, I believe that it is crucial for a child to have a good relationship with their parent. It creates a whole new avenue in order to grow and develop as a person. In today's day and age, kids don't see it as a 'cool' thing to go out with parents, or generally be seen with them for that matter. My friends are always awed by the fact that my mom and I go for pedicures, movies or dinners together and actually enjoy it. Relationships don't develop overnight, you need to nurture it, put effort and feel the 'want' to create it and maintain it as well. What I adore the most, is that I can approach my mom and tell her absolutely anything, whether it's embaressing or humiliating. I don't feel remorse, but a sense of relief and comfort. Recently, my eyes have been opened to many things that I now am able to understand due to my maturing age. As a child, I wasn't able to grasp what my mom has actually sacrificed for me, and for my siblings. I am thoroughly grateful for everything, especially the support my mom provides me - with regards to my career. Support and encouragement is more than enough for me at the moment to be content with - I am happy that I was able to prove myself worthy of being in the process of 'becoming someone'.
Thanks mom, for all you have done for me. Your work does not go unnoticed although I may commend you not as often as I should be. You have always been my backbone and will continue to be. Keep your head up as things are not always as easy as we think they may be. I look up to you for strength and courage to continue in life. Don't ever give up or think less of yourself. I love you more today, for being my friend when I needed one.
I love you
Camera: Canon EOS 450D
Exposure: 1/400
Aperture: F/5.6
Focal Length: 55mm
ISO: 800
Camera: Canon EOS 450D
Exposure: 1/100
Aperture: f/7.1
Focal Length: 55mm
ISO: 200
Wednesday, May 6, 2009
tea for one please
A person's day can be so stressful and utterly monotonous. The best part is when you're able to kick back and relax in silence and have a hot cup of masala chai. The satisfaction an individual experiences whilst reflecting the days' events are completely unexplainable.
Life can be complicating in many ways for everyone. Be it a working mom or dad, college student, grandparent or teacher we need to start creating some 'me' time. It's okay to think about yourself, reflect and relax. These are basic necessities that we are entitled to and shouldn't have to think twice about. Make it a point everyday to practice yoga, go for a walk, have a cup of tea or read a book in silence. It's important to have time to yourself to clear your head and plan future goals - sometimes it's okay to be selfish.
Life can be complicating in many ways for everyone. Be it a working mom or dad, college student, grandparent or teacher we need to start creating some 'me' time. It's okay to think about yourself, reflect and relax. These are basic necessities that we are entitled to and shouldn't have to think twice about. Make it a point everyday to practice yoga, go for a walk, have a cup of tea or read a book in silence. It's important to have time to yourself to clear your head and plan future goals - sometimes it's okay to be selfish.
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